My Sexual Rights

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March 29, 2008

“He would constantly tell me my “job” was to greet him at the door, pull down his pants and give him oral sex upon his arrival home” Mount Cope …. But He Loved Me

  • I have the right to feel good
  • I have the right to initiate healthy sex
  • I have the right to pleasure myself

“He had our therapist and myself believe I was frigid. She was making an appointment for me at a sexual councillor. Did I tell you he always made me do things I did not want to do.” Mount Cope ….. But He loved Me

  • I have the right to say NO
  • I have the right to be listened to
  • I have the right to say “stop” without labels

He wanted to take nude pictures of me and put them on the internet. He kept telling me “We can make lots of money” I kept saying no . Shortly before we separated he would sneak into the bathroom while I was taking a bath and took pictures. I was concerned he would sell them and put a clause about these pictures in our separation agreement.” Mount Cope…. But He Loved Me

  • I have the right to have my sexual boundaries respected
  • I have the right to have my sexual needs and preferences respected
  • I have the right to honesty in order to make choices

He always wanted to make a porn movie and would try to talk me into it. He would make me watch porn movies so I would know how to do it. He told me I didn’t know how to do it.” Mount Cope …. But He Loved Me

  • I have the right to enjoy sex without fear
  • I have the right to enjoy sex without guilt
  • I have the right to enjoy sex without shame
  • I have the right to safe sex

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2 Responses to “My Sexual Rights”

  1. Am Matthews Says:

    The work of a Sociopath here! Thank God you got out when you did. You are one of the lucky ones!!! God Bless you and every women that is currently going through this torture, and abuse that you have had to endure. Yes we all have the right to our own sexuality, beliefs and desires, and the right to say no, and to create boundaries that we have for ourselves.
    Here is to a healthy sexual life from now on. ~ Amy

  2. pammyl Says:

    Married to a perverted sociopath 20 years. I was 21 years old when we got married. His ex tried to warn me but I “knew it all” and did not listen. (He was such a charmer.) He made me do unspeakable sexual things. I have no idea how I survived but finally at 41 got the strength to leave. Left a 16 year old son behind but after his dad brainwashed him, he finally is seeing the truth. After 8 months my son is back into my life. My daughter I think, is what gave me the strength to leave. Now 11, she had been telling me to leave for 3 years. She has blossomed since we left. Discovered the book The Sociopath Next Door and found out that there is a name for what he is. One more week and I will be free at last. I just hope the threats and the stalking ends when the marriage does. And yes, I do have sexual rights! I am NOT a possession to just be used.


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