Forgiveness And Your Health


There is now scientific evidence that forgiveness has health benefits. A new study, published in the journal “Harvard Women’s Health Watch,” has found that the old adage ‘forgive (to) forget’ not only makes you happier it also makes you healthier.  The study found that forgiving people reduces stress, makes your heart rate improve and also keeps your blood pressure under control.

The researchers said that forgiveness reduces stress. They discovered that having a grudge can place the same strains that tense muscles, elevated blood pressure, increased sweating have on your body. They also said that the heart will benefit if you are able to forgive. A study found a link between forgiving and improvements in heart rate and blood pressure.

Wow. So, apart from the spiritual benefits for me, there are great physical benefits too. I can reduce my stress levels allowing me to live a healthier and happier life.  Taking back control from the person who hurt me, gives me the power to control of reducing factors that could have detrimental health and psychological impact to my well being.

Stress has both short and long term consequences.  According BUPA, short-term consequences of stress:

  • Causes a number of unpleasant effects. These include physical symptoms, such as rapid tiredness, headaches, digestive problems and muscle tension.
  • Can also cause emotional and behavioral symptoms, such as disturbed sleep patterns, low self-esteem, mood swings, anxiety and poor concentration.

That is not all, although debated by experts, the long-term effects of stress can take a toll ones health, increasing the risk of serious physical and mental problems.  Some such problems include:

  • A heart attack or an attack of angina
  • Increased risk of stroke
  • More likely to develop high blood pressure (otherwise known as hypertension) if you are under a lot of stress, which is a risk factor for heart disease
  • Likelihood of developing depression and other mental health problems

Forgive To Forget


2 Responses to “Forgiveness And Your Health”

  1. Barbara Says:

    I will never ever forgive an “ongoing crime” such as abuse by a narcissist or psychopath. Their sorrys are empty and only about them – meant to shut you up and get them out of the doghouse so they can do it again.

    Responsible UNforgiveness has helped me heal tremendously.

  2. mountcope Says:


    Believe me I understand. By the way your website
    “Sanctuary For The Abused” is great!

    Mount Cope

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